09.11.2020
The Buddhist Technique of Michael Roach: 4 Steps to Achieve Any Goal
Michael Roach is an American Buddhist monk, philosopher, and entrepreneur, widely known for his system of spiritual development and success in the material world. His book The Diamond Cutter became a bestseller and inspired many to bring mindfulness into business and life. One of his core ideas is the 4-step technique, a method to achieve any goal through the principles of karma and altruism.
What is the essence of the method?
This method is based on an ancient Buddhist idea: everything we receive in life is the result of our past actions. To “plant” the right seeds and achieve a desired outcome, we must shift our focus away from the goal itself and instead help someone else who is pursuing a similar goal. This is the unusual but powerful approach of Michael Roach.
Step 1: Define your goal
The first step is to clearly and specifically define your goal. It can be anything: finding a job, getting married, saving for a home, improving your health, or starting a business. The key is clarity. For example: “I want to find a stable job that pays at least $3,000 a month and allows for remote work.”
Step 2: Find a “karmic partner”
The next step is to find someone who is seeking a similar goal. This could be a friend, colleague, or even a stranger. What matters is that their goal closely resembles yours. By selflessly helping them, you’re planting the seeds for your own success.
Step 3: Help regularly
Choose a specific day and time each week to help your karmic partner. This should be a consistent, deliberate action. For instance, you might meet your friend weekly to help her write resumes, search for jobs, or develop a key skill. Do this with genuine care, without expecting anything in return.
Step 4: Coffee meditation in the evening
The final — and according to Roach, the most important — step is the evening practice called “coffee meditation.” Before going to bed, reflect on how you helped your karmic partner and feel joy from that experience. Imagine your own goal growing from that good deed. This strengthens the effect of the planted seeds and speeds up results.
Why does it work?
Michael Roach teaches that we perceive the world through “karmic glasses” — a filter shaped by our past actions. If you want to change your reality, you must change the root cause behind it. Instead of fighting circumstances, Roach encourages you to work at the root level — through altruism and mindful reflection.
Example
Suppose you want to get married. You find a friend who also dreams of starting a family. Once a week, you support her — emotionally, with advice, or by helping with her dating profile. In the evening, you reflect joyfully on this support. After a few weeks or months, your own life may start changing — often in unexpected ways.
Conclusion
Michael Roach’s 4-step method isn’t magic or wishful thinking. It’s a deep and practical tool grounded in Buddhist principles and karmic cause and effect. It not only helps you achieve your goals but also makes the process more mindful, generous, and meaningful.
If you’re ready to try something new — especially if traditional methods haven’t worked — give this technique a chance. It just might transform your life and the lives of those you help.
What is the energy of life?
We identified 12 main areas in life of each person, the qualitative improvement of each will fill your life with energy and harmony: health, family, time, spirituality, hobbies, beauty, environment, space, well-being, nutrition, lifestyle and self-realization.
Health
Health is when every day is the best. – Franklin Adams
Beauty
Beauty is in everything, but not everyone is given to see it. – Confucius
Nutrition
Thou shouldst eat to live; not live to eat. – Socrates
Home
There is no place more delightful than one’s own domestic space. – Cicero Mark Tullius
Family
Everyone is always someone's child. – Pierre Augustin Beaumarchais
Lifestyle
Staying yourself is the easiest and most worthy lifestyle no matter what others think of you. – Mrinal Kumar Gupta
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